How To Deal With Your Girlfriend's Past Relationships
Hey guys, my name is Marni and I am a professional wing girl and owner of The Wing Girl Method. Which means it’s my job to tell you tons of secrets about women so you can be successful with them ;-) I love hearing from you and really like that you are sending me questions and comments.
Here is an awesome question that I got from Vlad that I think may resonate with many of you who are in a relationship: “Marni, Why do my girlfriend's past relationships and sexual partners bother me and how do I get over it?
Vlad, they bother you because you are a human being. A human being who really likes your girlfriend and doesn’t want to have to envision anyone else being with or IN her. As a woman, I experience the exact same type of jealousy and I honestly think it’s totally normal. But what’s interesting is that while most men don’t want to have to hear about a woman’s exes, MOST women want to know everything about a man’s exes. It’s not some type of perverse thing. It’s actually a way for us girls to get to know our man better and help calm some of those early relationship nerves.
We want to know what went wrong in the past and if you’ve changed your ways. We also want to know that you are completely over your ex and hopefully hate her so that you won’t leave us in the middle of the night to rekindle your relationship. Our line of questioning and the information we receive is a way for us to investigate and get solid confirmation that what we have is better than what the two of you have. It helps calm our jealousy and have more faith in our relationship.
I’m telling you this because I think so many men could actually learn from the way us women investigate. Collecting more real information rather then letting your brain run a muck is a surefire way to increase those jealous feelings and totally turn off your girlfriend. My advice is that if your girlfriend's past relationships are getting under your skin, it may be because you don’t know enough information about this ex.
So start asking questions. Calm questions, curious questions, inquisitive questions -- NOT attacking questions that can show you to be a jealous little man. Ask questions such as “Why did your last relationship end?” and "Do you still talk to your ex?” and then let her share. Let HER tell you the information that you need to know in order to be more calm about things and remove that jealous edge.
Trust me. Not only will this calm you down and decrease feelings of jealousy, it will also strengthen your relationshipHow To Deal With Your Girlfriend's Past Relationships - Dating & Sex http://in.askmen.com/dating-sex/1114228/article/how-to-deal-with-your-girlfriends-past-relationships
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